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The [[Law of Chastity]] is an important commandment from God that never changes.  It demands abstinence from sexual activity outside of marriage (which is defined as the legal union of a man and a woman) and complete fidelity within marriage.  The law of chastity is a central tenet in the belief system and doctrines of [http://comeuntochrist.org The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints] (sometimes mistakenly called the [http://www.whymormonism.org Mormon Church]), which is centered on the eternal happiness of [http://www.mormonfamily.net families].

==How Living the Law of Chastity Brings Blessings==

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Studies have shown that sexual behaviors outside of marriage dull our ability to love fully and our ability to commit fully in a loving, long-term relationship.

Recent findings uphold the doctrines of the Church of Jesus Christ.  One is that intimate affection brings about a chemical, biological, and emotional bonding between participants, that is painful to break. Many teens go to counselors, unable to separate themselves emotionally from prior relationships where intimacy, even brief intimacy, was shared.  

:Psychologist Jess Lair of Montana State University describes the psychological significance of sexual experiences in this way: "Sexual bonding includes powerful emotional, psychological, physical, and spiritual links that are so strong that the two people become one, at least for a moment. Sexual intercourse is an intense, though brief physical bonding that leaves indelible marks on the participants. . . . To believe one can walk away from a sexual experience untouched is dangerously naive." [http://foreverfamilies.byu.edu/Article.aspx?a=9]

Once sexuality becomes frequent without deep, shared affection, people subconsciously disassociate themselves from the partner as an emotional protection. This is called "objectification" &mdash; the other person becomes an object of sexual adventure, rather than a person worthy of unselfish, committed love. Objectifying kills love, and indeed, once an entire society descends into promiscuity, love dies all around. The apostle Paul said of the promiscuous (referring also to those participating in homosexual encounters),

:". . . Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, without understanding, covenant breakers, '''without natural affection''', implacable, unmerciful . . ." (Romans 1:29–31).

Objectification is the result also of indulgence in [http://guardmarriage.com/threats-to-marriage/pornography pornography]. The addicted person objectifies the spouse and even the children in a family, thus ending the loving relationships that once existed, leading to divorce and estrangement.

This result is even seen in [http://guardmarriage.com/threats-to-marriage/co-habitation co-habiting relationships] wherein people live together, even intending to get married someday.  When they do eventually wed, the relationship is fragile, the divorce rate higher, not lower, even though the live-in relationship was intended to deepen familiarity and lead to a better marriage.

:"Couples who remain chaste before marriage report greater satisfaction in their marriages than those who were sexually active before marriage. Their marriages are more stable and more fulfilling. Researchers have even found that couples who did not have sex before marriage report greater sexual fulfillment after marriage than those who had premarital sex." [http://foreverfamilies.byu.edu/Article.aspx?a=9]

These findings uphold Latter-day Saint belief that living the law of chastity leads to happiness and love, rather than the opposite, as assumed by the world. The world's view is that the law of chastity is restrictive and impossible to live. But millions of members of the Church of Jesus Christ are living the law of chastity and are grateful for the blessings they receive because of it.

==Safety, Both Physical and Spiritual==
Living the law of chastity brings many blessings. Obvious is the protection from sexually transmitted diseases, the possibility of unplanned pregnancy (which sometimes leads to abortion), and the risk of emotional damage and damage to reputation. Less obvious is the protection from spiritual damage. The loss of virtue makes us unsuitable vessels for the [http://whymormonism.org/81/holy_ghost_mormonism Holy Ghost].  

The Holy Ghost is the third member of the [[Godhead]], a personage of spirit, who can dwell within us, not only filling us with light, but also enabling communication between us and God. With the Holy Ghost as our companion, we can receive personal revelation from Deity. Personal revelation can testify of truth, warn us in case of danger, enlighten our minds with new, novel ideas, comfort us in times of trouble, help us find new solutions for our problems and challenges, and help us understand our own divine nature. Without the Holy Ghost, we are left to ourselves to get through life as best we can. Those who have the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost can testify that they receive constant help with their decisions.  They can't imagine going through life without it.

==Getting to the Temple==
A Latter-day Saint who is chaste can go to a temple to partake of higher covenants that increase the [http://www.lifebeforelife.org divine spark] within that person and put him or her on the narrow path toward the highest kingdom of [[Mormon Beliefs: Life After Life|heaven]]. Part of temple worship and worthiness is the opportunity to be [http://www.manillamormontemple.com eternally sealed] to one's spouse and children. Latter-day Saints who [http://www.mormonendowment.com marry in the temple] have about a 7 percent divorce rate, the lowest of any group in the United States. The divorce rate for religious people of all religions in the U.S. is about 25 percent, and for the general population, as high as 50 percent.

The Church of Jesus Christ produces a pamphlet called "[https://lds.org/youth/for-the-strength-of-youth?lang=eng For the Strength of Youth]" to [http://www.mormonyouth.org guide youth] toward behavior that conforms with the laws of God. It reads,

:"“The sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife” (“The Family: A [[Proclamation to the World]]”).

:"Physical intimacy between husband and wife is beautiful and sacred. It is ordained of God for the creation of children and for the expression of love between husband and wife. God has commanded that sexual intimacy be reserved for marriage.

:"When you are sexually pure, you prepare yourself to make and keep sacred covenants in the temple. You prepare yourself to build a strong marriage and to bring children into the world as part of an eternal and loving family. You protect yourself from the spiritual and emotional damage that come from sharing sexual intimacy outside of marriage.

:"Never do anything that could lead to sexual transgression. Treat others with respect, not as objects used to satisfy lustful and selfish desires. Before marriage, do not participate in passionate kissing, lie on top of another person, or touch the private, sacred parts of another person’s body, with or without clothing. Do not do anything else that arouses sexual feelings. Do not arouse those emotions in your own body. Pay attention to the promptings of the Spirit so that you can be clean and virtuous. The Spirit of the Lord will withdraw from one who is in sexual transgression.

:"Avoid situations that invite increased temptation, such as late-night or overnight activities away from home or activities where there is a lack of adult supervision. Do not participate in discussions or any media that arouse sexual feelings. Do not participate in any type of pornography. The Spirit can help you know when you are at risk and give you the strength to remove yourself from the situation. Have faith in and be obedient to the righteous counsel of your parents and leaders.

:"Make a personal commitment to be sexually pure. By your words and actions, encourage others to do the same." ([https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/for-the-strength-of-youth/sexual-purity?lang=eng '''Read more . . .''']

==Additional Resources==
*[http://mormon.org Basic Mormon Beliefs (Official Church website)]
*[http://mormonyouth.org Latter-day Saint Youth]
*[[Mormon Youth|The Success of Latter-day Saint Youth]]
*[http://www.mormonfamily.net Latter-day Saint Families]

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