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| − | [[image: Mormon-missionary-2.jpg|200px|right|alt=Mormon Missionaries|Mormon Missionaries]]''Returned Missionary'' refers to a member of | + | [[image: Mormon-missionary-2.jpg|200px|right|alt=Mormon Missionaries|Mormon Missionaries]] |
| + | '''Returned Missionary''' refers to a member of [http://comeuntochrist.org The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints] who has served as a [http://www.dearelder.com/index/inc_name/Mormon_Missionaries/ full-time missionary] and has now returned home. The phrase is generally abbreviated as RM. For young Latter-day Saints, and most especially for young male members, [http://www.answers.com/topic/mormon-missionary serving a mission] is seen as a rite of passage into adulthood. Young men who have not yet served a mission are generally discouraged from dating seriously as this would distract from the goal of serving a mission. Once they return home, RMs are generally encouraged to begin dating seriously and to seek to get married. | ||
| − | While technically a neutral term referring to any person who has returned from a mission, RM is most often used when referring to men who have returned. This is partly because in Mormonism, all young men | + | While technically a neutral term referring to any person who has returned from a mission, RM is most often used when referring to men who have returned. This is partly because in the Mormonism, all young men have a priesthood responsibility to serve a mission, whereas it is optional for women. In Mormon culture, many stereotypes and jokes abound regarding newly returned missionaries, most dealing with their difficulties in handling the reverse culture shock or learning to speak their native language again if they served a foreign speaking mission. Other stereotypes revolve around the fact that as [http://www.lightplanet.com/mormons/daily/missionary/index.htm Latter-day Saint missionaries], they lived highly structured, disciplined lives focused on teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ and avoided contact with members of the opposite sex, so many RMs have difficulty readjusting to social life and dating. Most returned missionaries pursue education or work to acquire vocational skills as they return to normal routines. |
| − | As [http://lds.about.com/od/mormonmissionaries returned missionaries], these young men and women are frequently called to assist in the local missionary effort and are encouraged to stay active within the Church through callings and service. | + | Other stereotypes include the supposed rush of many RMs to get married as soon as possible. Many families whose daughters are old enough to get married, encourage them to date RMs, since they are considered eligible to marry. This perceived eligibility derives from the fact that young men greatly mature on their missions. They have spent all their time serving others and relying on the Lord for guidance. They have honed their talents in public speaking, social interaction, organization, and leadership. They are not only highly desirable as potential husbands but as business leaders. That many have gained fluency in a foreign language, as well as cultural fluency, adds to their "marketability." |
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| + | As [http://lds.about.com/od/mormonmissionaries returned missionaries], these young men and women are frequently called to assist in the local missionary effort and are encouraged to stay active within the Church through callings and service. RMs who served in the same mission frequently stay in touch and gather for mission reunions held in Salt Lake City to coincide with the semiannual [[General Conference]]. | ||
==Links about specific missions and RMs== | ==Links about specific missions and RMs== | ||
Revision as of 21:50, 17 January 2024
Returned Missionary refers to a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who has served as a full-time missionary and has now returned home. The phrase is generally abbreviated as RM. For young Latter-day Saints, and most especially for young male members, serving a mission is seen as a rite of passage into adulthood. Young men who have not yet served a mission are generally discouraged from dating seriously as this would distract from the goal of serving a mission. Once they return home, RMs are generally encouraged to begin dating seriously and to seek to get married.
While technically a neutral term referring to any person who has returned from a mission, RM is most often used when referring to men who have returned. This is partly because in the Mormonism, all young men have a priesthood responsibility to serve a mission, whereas it is optional for women. In Mormon culture, many stereotypes and jokes abound regarding newly returned missionaries, most dealing with their difficulties in handling the reverse culture shock or learning to speak their native language again if they served a foreign speaking mission. Other stereotypes revolve around the fact that as Latter-day Saint missionaries, they lived highly structured, disciplined lives focused on teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ and avoided contact with members of the opposite sex, so many RMs have difficulty readjusting to social life and dating. Most returned missionaries pursue education or work to acquire vocational skills as they return to normal routines.
Other stereotypes include the supposed rush of many RMs to get married as soon as possible. Many families whose daughters are old enough to get married, encourage them to date RMs, since they are considered eligible to marry. This perceived eligibility derives from the fact that young men greatly mature on their missions. They have spent all their time serving others and relying on the Lord for guidance. They have honed their talents in public speaking, social interaction, organization, and leadership. They are not only highly desirable as potential husbands but as business leaders. That many have gained fluency in a foreign language, as well as cultural fluency, adds to their "marketability."
As returned missionaries, these young men and women are frequently called to assist in the local missionary effort and are encouraged to stay active within the Church through callings and service. RMs who served in the same mission frequently stay in touch and gather for mission reunions held in Salt Lake City to coincide with the semiannual General Conference.
Links about specific missions and RMs
- The LDS Mission Network - the most comprehensive index of RMs
- LDS Missions - Another database for RMs to stay in touch
